Where Sober People Connect
We’re building a vibrant, supportive community in the UK and US where sober people can connect with others who share their values. For relationships built on connection, not consumption.​
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Sign up below, create your profile, and enjoy 8 weeks of FREE premium access when we launch!
Clear From Day One
Dating sober comes with its own challenges. We get it. That's why everyone's sober status is upfront - no guessing games, no awkward conversations.
​Whether you’re looking for friendship, a meaningful relationship, or something more casual, find people who match your energy and value your clarity.​​
Just real connections from the start.
The Story Behind Sober Love
My journey has been one of love, loss, and transformation. The weight of grief, combined with the challenges of single parenting and running my businesses during a global pandemic, led me to turn to alcohol as a coping mechanism.
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For four years, I battled alcoholism, using it as a way to numb the pain and stress. But in 2024, I reached a turning point. I made the life-changing decision to seek help and entered rehabilitation at the Priory. It was there that I began to rebuild my life, embracing sobriety and confronting my fears about dating and love without alcohol.
Through this journey, I realized how difficult it is to navigate the dating world as a sober person. The idea of sober dates, or even sober love, felt daunting. But I also saw the need for a supportive, judgment-free space for people like me, who are on their own journey...
Become a Founding Member
Register today, complete your profile, and get ready for 8 weeks of premium benefits for free on app launch, including:
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Unlimited messaging with potential matches
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See who’s interested in your profile
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Priority access to exclusive sober events
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Full access to our sober community features
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Personal profile optimisation
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You won’t be able to search for other members until the platform officially launches, but you can get a head start by building your profile today and ensuring you're ready to connect as soon as it goes live!
Beyond The Coffee Date
At Sober Love, you'll find matches who share your idea of the perfect time. From sunrise hikes for early birds to cooking classes for foodies, adventure sports for thrill-seekers to meditation sessions for the mindful. Connect through creative workshops and activities that spark genuine conversation.
Your Kind of People
Open to everyone across the UK and US walking the sober path, however you got here. Whether you’ve engaged in therapy, rehab, a structured 12-step program, or are simply exploring sobriety, you’re welcome here.
You might be living sober, in recovery, exploring sobriety, or simply committed to wellness. No explanations needed. You don't have to justify your choices or feel out of place. Everyone gets it.
More Than Dating
This is your sober community.
Join active forums for real talk, meet up at local events, learn from expert sessions on growth and wellness, and participate in group activities that actually interest you.
Free to join – now's the time to sign up, create your profile, and get ready for launch.
Our Promise
We celebrate clarity in every connection.
Whether you're substance-free, alcohol-free, or both, you'll find your community here.
Your Security Matters
Your safety is our priority. We protect our community through verified profiles only, a privacy-first approach, 24/7 community support, strict community guidelines, and zero tolerance for harassment.
